Mental Health

Secret To A Success Story – What They Didn’t Tell You

THE STORY OF SUCCESS

Success is an event that everyone like, adores and keenly look up-to and following the footsteps of the people who “Makes It Big” in the game called life.

It is the single most event that everyone wants. None denies being successful. Everyone dreams to be one, desiring to be a little better than their neighbours.

The problem with too many of us is that we are always focused on the outcome. We want the result. We want success handed over to us like a box of chocolate.


MAKING PROCESS AS THE REWARD

There are well-defined Steps for success in life. Success is a happening, a consequence of countless favourable outcomes.

Those who make it big never aims for ” the box of chocolates“. They are focused on perfecting their area of passion.

Successful people do not have the destination as their interest point. The process is their ultimate reward.


THE HARSH REALITY ABOUT OUR BRAINS 

Our brains are mainly hardwired to-

  1. Providing us with optimum comfort and ease
  2. Escape the hard work and conserve energy as much as possible.
  3. Aversion of pain and seeking of pleasure

The mind is always focused on attaining immediate pleasure, no matter how good or worse it is for your life.

Making a mental effort is always an enemy of the brain. Our brains do not have goals, visions or ideas. 


PERSPECTIVE- THE WAY OUT

Riding in the seat of comfort never brings the best out of you. Walking in the path of Resistance, discomfort and vulnerability bring you closer to your vision.

Seek to be in discomfort. Set your well-defined boundaries in life. Let your actions be deliberate, a stepping stone to a better you. 

Fail handsomely. Believe it or not, the best will shine through you only through a series of handsome failures.


A GOOD NEWS FOR ALL

It isn’t the end either, for those who are enjoying the fruits of success. Success is not a point you reach.

Success is a never-ending journey of persistence and perseverance to do the right thing and minimise the wrongs as much as possible. 

It is never too late to strive for success. So what’s your success story?

“Be like the lotus: trust in the light, grow through the dirt, and believe in new beginnings”. 


prateem

Prateem is a Researcher and a Student of Psychology. He is an avid reader. He writes about life. He has devoted his life to understanding the nature of life and the working of the human mind. He shares his work and findings as blogs and articles in YoursHealthMate.

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